Optimism

I had few thoughts i wanted ppl to read about....and here they come...
Some times in life you retrospect and think why all this happened? I am at that stage. you analyze you retrospect the past..try to find links between them...connecting the dots what i call.... Life is never easy but it is always balanced...so everybody has their share of joys & sorrows....how you handle them is what counts.While doing this i realized ..I am not bad handling down phases in my life....I know it takes a lot of strength to get up and going when you are depressed somehow i have managed to pull through...
Human nature varies from person to person...it depends on many external factors like...sex, age, finances, aspirations ....etc..etc.. BUT one...only one internal factor...i.e. how you feel about yourself...what can you do to feel good about yourself ? well you can pat your back for everything you do...you can do a little self praising...you can stop people when they try to make you feel miserable...Turn a deaf ear when ppl demean you....and a motto...my competition is with myself and no one else... and the last one Be realistic understand your limitations...
So when you are good in your own eyes you over come and when you deny yourself of self respect you tumble down the depression.
Remember people who feel good about themselves can make others feel good....