Salutations...

I have been ignoring my blog lately...much water has passed under the bridge since then.......:D trying to be sophisticated...well I think that’s not my cup of tea/coffee whatever!!!! who cares....
well there are two events to write about. To start with ...my first boyfriend ever...:D aka My Dad....is hospitalized...got fracture in 'tibia'... i know you won't get it....:)) that is the front bone of calf. Also had a deep wound and some deadly infection too...
I could empathize how was he feeling...lookin at the past..dad....A self made man....never ever he asked anybody....he was born poor...brought up poorly ....did not had a proper education...worked part time to complete his basic education as well as support his mother in running household with 12 kids (he was 6th of them) and 4 elders....ambitiousness...eternal optimism an ability to rise against all odds...made him what he is today. He is my Phoenix...always rising from all odds.I salute him...
He has earned n is still earning more than his contemporaries having good education n family background.....its not just the money he has earned... but a good friend circle...lots of well wishers.....i was shocked to see the stream of people coming to meet him while i was with him in the hospital.... everybody who comes in contact cant stop adoring him... he has earned a reputation i yearn to earn till m 56..(dads age).
sorry i was a little lost....coming back to the main topic....i had no leaves to avail...i went there for 2 days which i later extended to 4 days somehow.... i was feeling guilty coming back....i couldn’t stay at my dad's bedside 'coz i had a job...:(...all my achievements were worthless...i wasn’t able to comfort him in the only manner he most needed it..by tending him...i cam back with a heavy heart.....what for kids are????
To end with ...i have WOMEN"S DAY....well i believe only 5-7% of this population actually knows why we celebrate it ...so we had a nice gala celebration with lunch exclusively for ladies...looking lovely.. draped in expensive sarees...all the guys were working inside while we enjoyed....was this the true spirit of Women's day???? ladies were celebrating it for ladies....only if the guys wud have arranged all this for their female colleagues ..wud have defined the true spirit of the day......
Well according to me ..to be Equal one doesn’t need to celebrate or mark the occasion....but not caring... why do we need to remind everybody around us that ...'hey i m a lady!!'i have a question--- why do we whine about being a women (--its a mans world!!), when we secretly enjoy privileges bestowed upon us? This day is celebrated to mark the day when Russian women went on strike to protest against world warII… they came out on streets to resent killing of their men in battlefields against all odds... I salute them... i love being what The Creator made me........ on this note........ cya.........